May 30th, 2008
How to move on
It’s a though question to ask, and not everyone managed to make it through. Sometimes, the task of moving on seems like “forever” and ever, without even moving forward a single step. When love begins, we know it’ll feel good, we know it’s something special happening, but, the more it grows, the more painful it’ll be at the latter end.
Love ain’t be love no more, at times. It can change always, with no real reason. Like at some points in our life, we fall in love with someone unexpectedly, without even wanting to. That can happen in a unpleasant way too, falling out of love for someone, without even wanting that to happen. A good question is, if you are one of those to whom this situation is applicable “being left alone” would be: How do we move on?
Some of my friends kept on asking me for advices, until I responded that I just can’t determine whether what they shouldn’t do and what they could, I’m just not someone of that kind of field. But anyways, I thought about reflecting this for a moment, and found out; myself. That moving on is quiet a very tough thing to do. And sometimes, we fail to do so.
Next time I’ll get dumped and get a kick in the ass, I’ve thought of enjoying myself in blogging more. Like you may have noticed, I was quiet unattended here for some time, so was the incoming traffic fairly hitting a total of 300 during my absence which is usually my daily amount of traffic. I would also try to spend more time socialize with “my few” true friends that I have in life. Indeed, they won’t earn me a dollar or two that I would earn online, but they would earn me a smile on my face and worthwhile bonding with.
Love is not everything in life, life has all these vast amount of choices, blogging itself comes in hundreds of genres, from bloggers who just blog to earn money, to those passionate bloggers (like me here on Poetic Notes) who just blog away to express themselves and have a good time. Although, blogging turns to be very much hip nowadays, it’s not the only thing that could bring us happiness, nor is this the only replacement for a broken heart. Nor would looking for someone else help out, as this may sometimes even create a deeper burden for you.
But the very friends, who last until forever after are the ones who we could seek for, the ones who could shelter us and comfort us in such torment moments in our lives. But honest to say, everything just depends on yourself, you should follow what your mind tells you (but don’t forget to apply common sense, if your mind says that you should suicide, don’t do that, alright?)
I wonder how painful that would feel, I haven’t felt that tragic way for quiet some time now, well, not really actually, but about a week ago, I felt somewhat fairly equal to this experience that I never ever want to experience (again).
To sum things up, I believe that every broken heart has someone equal to it to mend it, and no other “people” (because many) could do better, but your friends. Hang out with them, enjoy your life. A broken relationship is not the end of the world, but the end of a new lesson learned.
hi, just visiting. hope you have a wonderful weekend
ah, the classic question.unfortunately, i don’t have the answer. hehehe. =) hopefully you’re doing better after whatever it is you just went through. life goes on. there’s always something better to look forward to. =)
This one is hard for some people, especially me I can’t just forget about something or someone. It’s just hard to move on when things are getting better then it just breaks apart..
Once a relationship is broken, it’s hard to forget. But once you get another one, everything goes away.
This is THE Question. I Don`t know someone who was in love(REAL) with girl/boyfriend and to forget him even for minutes!
I feel ……………………. i don’t know becoz i have no broken relation but if i have broken relation with someone else then i will do that everybody else do …….. i will catch another hot chick dude…….. i will not upset because life is one! I will live with joy! ;}………
Life is all about ups and downs, joys and absolute disasters that make you wonder: ‘why me?’ Although there is no answer to it, you really have to move on. When a relationship shatters, it’s painful, but you have to remind yourself:’I'm still alive. There must be someone else right for me’ and, with the help of friends and family, you can get past it.
Nice blog by the way.
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