Poetic Notes Journal

I doubt so, and I stand my words.

People might come to say that education aka school is the real killer of majority of relationships. A lot of them fall apart when school starts, a lot of them do have survived for now, but may come to an end any time soon, for, “educational purposes.” Yes indeed, a lot of relationships start at school, specifically in high school wherein we learned to love the most and hurt the most at the same time. It’s there where everything sets its beginning, where we learn from our mistakes and grow socially together with the opposite sex.

Although, a lot of people would agree when I say that education or school does lead a relationship to a end, I have a different view upon this situation. You know, relationships are not always all about love, kissing, hugging and all those stuff. You need to think ahead at times, be practical, be competitive. I do know some people who have even strengthened their relationships in the means of educational endeavor, in the means of helping each other out in the education level.

For guys specifically, there are a lot who are so much into online games. What are your girlfriends doing about it? Probably.. Nothing? Well, that’s a problem them. Proven by a lot of people and a lot of scenes already, people tend to perform better in any kind of physical or mental activity when they are inspired. And, the best inspiration you can grab from is from your lover. Why don’t use this as a advantage? Well, people might misunderstand this very concept. Because some would go, breakup and dig their noses into their books, but, do it other wise; else (especially for guys) you’ll end up at the next internet cafe enjoying your next DOTA challenge with other friends.

Have you ever tried to study together with your boyfriend or girlfriend? If you haven’t then, let me be one of the first to recommend you to do this. It sounds odd and geeky, but guys, it’s a real help. I haven’t tried it myself though, but I know people who do. Even if you do not attend the same year level, or your age gap is quite huge (age doesn’t matter, does it?) It could be a even better advantage for the younger of you two, wherein the older one could help out in the lessons of the younger person, while the younger one would serve as the inspiration of the older.

In that way, definitely, parents would come to agree that you may have your boyfriends or girlfriends already at the young ages of 13-16 (yep, I know people who are 13 yet and have boyfriends and girlfriends). Since, both of you would benefit not only from the social and emotional aspect, but from the educational aspect too. Try studying together, you ain’t loose anything, but get a whole bunch of teardrops to save in case education would lead to your breakup.